What happens when we stop doing the activities that once brought us joy? For many aging adults, this gradual disconnection from favorite pastimes often leads to isolation, cognitive decline, and diminished quality of life. Enter Brian Blotner of Silver Stage Motivators, who's created a revolutionary approach to eldercare focused on rekindling joy through meaningful engagement.

After 25 years in disaster cleanup, Brian's life took an unexpected turn when three people close to him died during COVID. While caring for his dying father, he discovered his true calling: motivational companionship. "I try and get my clients back to doing what they used to do," Brian explains. "If they used to go fishing, I take them fishing. If they used to cook, I get them to cook."

What makes Brian's approach unique is its intentional structure. By visiting clients roughly four hours weekly, he creates something precious they can anticipate: "Oh, it's Thursday, Brian's coming tomorrow. We're going to go bowling." This anticipation itself becomes therapeutic, combating the downward spiral that accompanies isolation. As Brian eloquently puts it, "You don't stop laughing when you grow old. You grow old when you stop laughing."

Though most clients are in their 80s, Brian works with people as young as 33 with special needs, creating personalized experiences that range from fishing trips to Eagles concerts. His services extend to various living situations—from private homes to memory care facilities—throughout Bergen and Rockland Counties. The common thread? Building genuine connection through active engagement rather than passive caregiving.

Ready to bring joy back to an aging loved one's life? Visit silverstagemotivators.com or call 845-422-6254 to learn how Brian's unique approach to companionship might be the missing piece in your elder care puzzle.

Silver Stage Motivators

Brian Blotner

(845) 422-6254

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